On a Tangent
A space to share our experiences and thoughts.
The Hidden Hostility Toward Women Who Opt Out of Motherhood
Women without children — especially those who choose this path — still face stigma, bias, and even risk. Not because of who we are, but because of how others feel about the choices we’ve made.
“It’s Because She Doesn’t Have Kids.” Yeah — And?
Being child-free doesn’t make us less ambitious, less responsible, or less fulfilled — it just means we’ve chosen a different version of a good life.
We Said It: What We Wish They Knew About Our Choice
We asked and you answered: What is one thing you wish more people understood about being child-free?
Rethinking Work-Life Balance for Child-Free, Solo-Living Professionals
The phrase “work–life balance” often conjures images of harried parents juggling school drop-offs, Zoom (or in my world, Teams) calls, and commutes as workers return to the office. But what happens when “life” doesn’t include children or a partner?
What “M/other” Gets Right About Being Child-Free
Ever feel like you're letting your mom down by choosing not to have children—even if she’s never said it aloud? If so, M/other, a short documentary by Iris Zaki, is for you.
Seth Rogen: True and Child-Free
Seth Rogen is a man who is open about his and his wife, Lauren Miller’s, desire not to have children. And that is what makes me love him even more.
The Blame Game: Another Branch in the Child-Free Decision Tree
Michal Leibowitz’s article in the New York Times is an insightful, genuine, and thought-provoking piece that will give you something else to ponder when deciding whether to embrace being child-free.
Monsters, Misfits, and the Childless*: A Troubling Cinematic Trend
Forming a family and having children is often portrayed as a key part of a fulfilling life. Many hold this to be true. But what happens when this dream doesn't come true? A study explores how films portray involuntary childlessness and how these portrayals contribute to the stigma of those without children.
Employee health insurance plans - are they fair for child-free workers?
Employers need to review their workplace benefit programs, including health insurance coverage, with a critical eye to evaluate whether these programs are fair to their child-free employees.
Women Without Kids by Ruby Warrington
In "Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood," Ruby Warrington explores her decision to be child-free, boldly tackling stereotypes that plague the child-free, explaining how these prejudices originated and why they are misguided.
Is your work culture single-friendly?
For decades, employers have worked to create a work culture that is friendly to their employees with children. And why wouldn’t they?
Attitude towards work-life balance for parents v child-free depend on where you live?
In the article, work-life balance referred to “the way in which individuals combine paid work and commitments outside of work”. Work-life arrangements included access to paid leaves and the ability to request flexible or remote working.
Falling in love with solo travel
I wasn’t always comfortable with the idea of travelling by myself. If I couldn’t find a friend to travel with, I didn’t go. Then I happened across a book …
“Am I allowed to have a boring, unimpressive little life without children?”
Scott’s article does a fantastic job of questioning the pressures that child-free women may place on themselves to explain – or justify – their life choices to others.
Elon Musk’s Hate-On for the Child-Free
Musk agreed that the right to vote should be restricted to only parents. He had previously commented that “the childless have little stake in the future.”
On Being a Child-Free Leader in the Workplace
How do perceptions of women who are both child-free and in leadership positions intersect in the workplace?
Embracing Our Insecurities to #AccelerateAction
Reflecting on the theme of International Women’s Day 2025, #AccelerateAction, I keep returning to the thought that we hold ourselves back too often.
What is your legacy if you don’t have kids?
I am deeply dissatisfied with the idea that my life's “long-lasting impact” could be based on anything other than my actions and their outcomes. I’m sure many parents feel the same way.
Having Children: A Moral Imperative?
Why should the very personal decision of whether or not to have children elicit any kind of a response in another individual?
You don’t need children and a husband to be a role model
What the hell does a woman have to do to exemplify the behaviour we want young people to strive to achieve?